Sunday, December 16, 2012

#23: Never ask a girl out or break up over text, phone, voicemail,myspace, Facebook, twitter, or email; thats low and just lame.

Life Lesson 23: Never ask a girl out or break up over text, phone, voicemail, myspace, Facebook, twitter, or email; thats low and just lame.

I am sure that most of us have had girlfriends/boyfriends/significant others while growing up. During childhood or adolescent years, some kids are taken to cotillion and are taught to be prim and proper.

Most kids are also taught proper manners when they grow up. Though most kids are taught proper manners and ways of courtship, some are taught nothing or are taught the wrong way to do things such as these. There are also those who are taught these but forget them whether intentionally or accidentally.

Whether you are taught the right way or the wrong way to do said things, eventually in life you should desire to respect others and be respected by others. In doing this, face-to-face confrontation and being personal with people is very vital in every part of our lives. With social networking and people being overly glued to their cell phones it is even harder for people to be personal or have much face-to-face. People are less likely to act natural when talking to new people or to the opposite sex. Though social networking was designed to help us stay in communication with others and get closer to others, it has caused us to do that but while hiding behind computer screens.

Due to this we need to try to be more personal with people and work on more face-to-face confrontations. If we build relationships with people we see more they will be better relationships. If we avoid face-to-face and choose to talk just on computers or phones then we will not be as confident in our selves. If we want to have respect from others we must communicate with eye contact and not just on phones or computers. If you decide to start a relationship with a future significant other, if you don't do it in person that is pretty low and not cool at all.

So always remember to never ask a girl out or break up over text, phone, voicemail, myspace, Facebook, twitter, or email; thats low and just lame.

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